One of my Facebook friends, someone who is a relative of someone who was once close to me and who grew up in an environment where I have heard quite a few racist remarks made if we’re being honest, posted today that he supports President Trump and will continue to do so. He cited several examples of black people being killed during Obama’s presidency and questioned why only now that a Republican president is in office that "change in the White House is needed.”
I respect everyone’s right to have respect for their leaders and to stand by them and support them. Saudi leaders are far from perfect, and yet in most scenarios I support them as well. I get it.
And the crazy part? Trump is and isn’t the problem.
I did a podcast yesterday - which I’ll share as soon as it comes out - and specifically noted that our leadership cannot be thought of as immortal. I’m pretty darn Liberal, I know, but holding the president accountable - or anyone accountable - for every little thing that is said that can be interpreted negatively is irresponsible.
We need to hold ourselves accountable, however.
We have voices that we can use and while Trump in some ways is supposed to represent me as an American, I’m sure he’s never sat down and had a heart to heart with a 29-year-old American Muslim convert living in Saudi Arabia. Just a hunch. He has no idea how I feel and yet, he is supposed to be a representative of me. How is that possible? It’s the way politics (and leadership) works.
But the world also gives us the incredible power to stand up for what we believe in and to acknowledge it. More recently the tool of social media has given us the ability to voice those opinions far and wide.
So while you can list events in which Obama was in office when hate crimes occurred or injustice with law enforcement, there is a marked difference in the number of cases that have occurred after Trump took office.
Here are some facts:
Hate crime violence overall was at a high in the end of 2019 - well into the Trump presidency.
There are studies done noting a marked increased in hate crimes and hateful sentiments that come in waves after Trump makes racist statements in the media. (The link is to an article explaining the report).
Sure, correlation is not necessarily causation - but can we continue to deny the fact there is a trend going on?
If you do deny this, it’s your right to be ignorant. But morally, you’re responsible for your own education. It is your responsibility to look beyond how you were socialized and what agents of socialization impacted you. Did your lack of exposure impact our outlook? Did your friends? How about your family?
Dude, my family members say things about race that make me want to crawl in a hole and die, but I got out of that cycle through education and exposure to people that did not look exactly like me.
And that’s what is supposed to happen. We learn, we grow, we evolve. We’re not cavemen and cavewomen.
You are supposed to take responsibility. Unlearn the stuff that your parents said to you at two that made you look at black people like they were less than you because their parents taught it to them because their parents OWNED black people.
Is it difficult? For sure.
Is it your RESPONSIBILITY as a human being? Absolutely.
Do you hate black people for being black? That’s asinine.
Your soul that makes you who you are could JUST AS EASILY have been put into a black person. Read that again.
And then, how would you want the world to respond? Who would you want to represent you?
If you want to support the president, go for it. It’s your right. However, if you support his hatred, his hate speech, or the hate that stems from the things he says, it’s immoral.